Smiles often come from unexpected places.

I'm perceiving life as a bit stressful right now. Work stresses me out, my boss avoids me, and my work is still taking ages to be approved which means my biggest projects take ages. Which annoys and frustrates me to no end. And leads me to look for jobs elsewhere.

I was speaking with a gal at work, the one who is notoriously opinionated and who quite frequently grates on my nerves. However, she's one of the only people here who will connect on a real level, if fleetingly. One of the gals from my department merely set a folder of letters on my desk today, which was enough to set off a facial reaction in me. I didn't quite realize it, but it happened. Ms notorious noticed and inquired. I divulged. Tears came. I had to put my face to the computer screen, whereupon she gave me a hug (yay, in a world that gives air kisses instead of hugs!) and a tim tam.

Strange, but she's making my day. I'll take happiness in any form.

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